I have been dieting for what seems like forever, but recently I've been really making an effort. I try to prepare healthy meals for dinner and when I go out to eat I order a salad. A funny thing though I have noticed is that my boyfriend seems to by trying to sabotage my diet. Every time I order a salad at a restaurant he complains and tells me to loosen up and he does the same thing when I eat less or healthier at dinner. I'm not sure what his problem is. Perhaps it's like the saying "misery loves company", but in this case it's being overweight instead of misery. My boyfriend is not a thin guy and could certainly lose some weight, but I love him no matter what his size. So why do you think he's acting this way and do you think he'll come around?